[[how to get over him]]
*get support from ur frens
surround urself with pple who understand wad u're going through.. after all, isn't that wad frens are for? =) but be conscious of giving ur frens' ears a break once in a while
*dun think about wad could have been
dun wonder about the future u could have had with ur ex.. it'll juz make u long for wad u do not-and like never will-have.. ``waste of time and energy, and may juz leave u feeling worse.. dun mull over "forever" sentences like 'we'll always be together.. someday we'll..`` =)
*avoid "your" places
steer clear of every shop or cafe ur ex and u had frequented.. it may trigger flashbacks of the good times u both had.. this is one walk down Memory Lane that u definitely dun need.. =)
*dun feel bitter or resentful
it ain't going to do ur sad heart any favours.. it's going to make u more depressed..
*dun call him. dun take his calls
the relationship is O-V-E-R.. so there's nth left to salvage..
*dun "check up" on him
dun ask so much about his thingy..the objective post-break-up should be to GET UR MIND OFF ur ex, nort hold him in ur thoughts.. =)
*stop wondering wad went wrong
wad's the point of analysing something u cannot change? u'll juz drive urself nuts picking details apart while trying to figure out wad really led to the break-up.. QUIT torturing urself already!! =)
*give urself a timeframe
let urself be sad for no longer than a few weeks.. Cry..Grieve..Withdraw into urself.. then SNAP OUT OF IT.. heal and sort ur emotions through that timeframe.. BE BACK TO REALITY after that.. =)
*dun think u can't do it.. =) *
give me a hug tonight, baby
3:12 AM
